• Ohexperience

    Ms. A- Fifty & Fine

    Ms. A just celebrated her 50th birthday. I said MS. A JUST CELEBRATED HER 50TH BIRTHDAY! She looks damn good and I hope to hell I look half as good as she does at her age. I hope I have her courage, beauty, and joy when I get there. I am honored that she allowed me to be apart of her special day. Enjoy her beauty and how her experience was in her own words!

    Check out Ms. A reacting to seeing her products & follow too!

    Why would you suggest every Black womxn do their own boudoir experience?
    It’s an empowering uplifting experience. It will help you tap into your sexy and embrace yourself. 
    Do you believe your boudoir experience empowered you? If yes, please explain.
    Absolutely! I felt  beautiful, sexy and comfortable in my skin.
    What is one thing you would tell other womxn to do during their boudoir experience, that you wish you had done?
    Use your imagination.
  • The Negus Project

    The Negus Project – Cornelius

    The Negus Project was started over 2 years ago after meeting Cornelius. The night we met we spoke about everything from travel to therapy. As I got to know him better we had conversations about the Black man’s plight in America. He gave me insight into what it means for him and his use of therapy to help navigate the bullshit. Cornelius is exactly who he says he is. He is an open book and that is why he is the first man for The Negus Project.

    The Negus Project is for cis and Trans Black men to celebrate and share their experience of being a black man. If you are interested in being apart of The Negus Project, send me an email.

  • A day in the life of Olesha

    Fearless and 35

    Fearless and 35! 34 did not end how I thought it would… in a damn pandemic! I didn’t let it stop me, but propel me to plan. Every year I plan to do something that challenges or is out of the ordinary for me. Before my 34th year ended I did three things, that were out of the ordinary for me. I traveled solo to Tulum, Mexico, and relaxed like I have never relaxed before. I did nothing, but read, ate, and got massages. I even had time to do an affirmation video that you can check out on my IG TV . I did travel to Greece solo, but this trip I was actually by myself. No meetups planned, just me.

    I logged out of social media and enjoyed my company. I sat outside and listened to the roosters be loud as hell. I ate tacos and drank tequila. I walked the streets of Tulum and even went to the beach. Going to the beach was so freeing. I stuffed my face and me and my big belly walked right to the ocean. I felt at peace.

    Check out my mini self portraits I took during the trip.

    The second thing I did was get my nose pierced! I was scared shitless for sure, but I did it. I even had to do it twice because it fell out a week after I got it the first time. That was not fun and I do not recommend it.

    The third thing I did was have a boudoir experience with Celeste Patrice Boudoir. Whew child Celeste got me and I felt like a damn goddess. I was even able to help her by modeling with a friend for a couples experience. I cannot wait for the adventures I plan to take during 35! What are some things you plan to do this year by stepping on the other side of fear? Will you be fearless and free at any age?

  • Empowered Interviews

    Empowered Interviews: Camilla Davis

    Camilla Davis is a powerhouse! I connected with her on Facebook in 2019. I swear the ancestors were looking out for me because whenever we talk, we can go for hours. I love it! Camilla is a Sexual Freedom & Intimacy Coach based in California. She helps others uncover, rediscover & enhance their relationships through various flavors of pleasure. 

    She joined me this month to discuss using the 5 senses to enhance your pleasure and she did not disappoint! This is part one of our conversation from the live. A few takeaways: 

    1. Start with taste or smell. 
    2. A question to start with is where do you like to be touched?
    3. Don’t just “fuck through things”.
    4. Communicate with words because body language can be interpreted wrong. 
    5. It can be hard for women to connect with their feminine energy because we have to take on masculine energy in our everyday lives often. 

    Enjoy parts 1 & 2!