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  • Black Culture,  Ohexperience

    Vlog?! Oh, Sis Say That

    The Oh, Sis Say That series is something new for me. This will be a monthly series where I am doing my hair and running my mouth about Black feminism, respectability politics, Black womxnhood, pop culture, etc. I would love to hear how you feel about the things I am discussing because these things impact all Black womxn. 

  • Boudoir Tips,  Ohexperience,  Photography

    Womxn of Color in Boudoir – Part 2

    How might boudoir photography sessions be tailored to cater specifically to the needs and experiences of women of color?

    Boudoir photography is dominated by White cisgender women. These women need to understand the differences in WOC. We are not all the same and all of our stories matter. They need to have a makeup artist and hair stylist that can work with all textures and complexions. They need to leave their bias at the door and meet these womxn exactly where they are as clients and people. They need to understand our history and have an understanding of how white supremacy creates beauty standards that a majority of WOC cannot meet. 

    Are there any cultural considerations that boudoir photographers should be mindful of when working with women of color?

    A big cultural consideration I have witnessed as a boudoir educator, particularly with white photographers, is changing their speech when photographing Black clients. Some will take on a “Blackcent” and it is not needed. Also working with clients that bring in costumes that are a part of the heritage and legacy of another culture. 

    How might boudoir photography contribute to an overall improved sexual health experience for women of color?

    Boudoir photography is about acceptance. You are accepting your body as it is now. You are given permission to love your body as it is now. You get to be in control of your boudoir experience and make decisions on what is comfortable or not based on your needs and wants. The boudoir experience is just a day, but for some people, it is a major moment of courage. That same courage that can allow you to speak up in the bedroom when something does not give you pleasure. Or as I call it the orgasmic yes!

    Black woman in teal robe lounging on wood floor